Meet JaeJeung So, LPC-S, ATR-BC, CTT

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Hi, I’m JJ

I help you live as who you are, instead of who you had to become to survive.

How is therapy with me different?

Specific focus

I work at the intersection of complex trauma, masked neurodivergence, and career agency. The patterns that show up there are specific, and I recognize them early — so we can start with what's actually happening rather than combing your history for clues.

This means we won’t be circling indefinitely. From the first session you'll know where we are, what we're working on, and where it goes next.

It's the difference between general practice and specialty care: you see a GP for most things, and you see an ENT when it's the same ear for the fourth time.

Raised inside the frameworks

Current psychotherapy draws heavily from Eastern philosophy — mindfulness, somatic awareness, the observer self in IFS, the understanding that healing moves through mind, body, energy, and something larger than both. Most clinicians studied these frameworks. I grew up inside them.

By sixteen I had crossed the Pacific ten times. Eastern and Western ways of understanding suffering weren't philosophies I compared in graduate school — they were the two languages I learned to think in at once.

If you already sense that healing isn't purely cognitive and suffering isn't a diagnosis, this tends to feel like finally being in the right room.

Lightness is part of the work

Trauma doesn't have to be heavy to be taken seriously. Making it heavier than it already is doesn't help — clinically or humanly. There will be laughter in our sessions. Not because I'm deflecting from the hard things, but because levity is often how the hardest things finally become moveable.

It isn't a nice bonus. It's part of how this works.

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“She is a gentle spirit with a sharp mind” - colleague

“Every session was like a slap of fresh air” - client

The Credentials

Education and Licensure

George Washington University, M.A. Master of Arts in Art Therapy, Washington D.C.

The College of William and Mary, Bachelor of Arts in Sociology, Virginia.

Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor #69994, Texas

Advanced Trainings and Certifications

  • Flash Technique Advanced

  • Flash Technique Foundation

  • IFS Institute - Level 2

  • IFS-Generational Trauma Training

  • IFIO- Intimacy From Inside Out

  • RRT-Rapid Resolution Therapy

  • RRT-Clinical Hypnosis

  • EMDR - Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing

  • ATCB - Board Certified Art Therapist #12-198, National

  • Somatic Zen

  • ITR - Instinctual Trauma Response Level 3 Certified

  • Bruce Perry Nuerosequential Model (NM)

  • TFCBT - Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

  • Somatic Embodiment & Regulation Strategies Certificate

  • Adult ADHD & Executive Functioning: The 12 Brain-Based Skills for Clinical Intervention

  • Misdiagnosed ADHD & Autism: Differential Diagnosis & Neuro-Affirming Interventions

  • Narcissistic Abuse: Evidence-Based Interventions for Emotional Abuse, Gaslighting & Trauma Recovery

My Approach

Bridge the Unconscious

“I don’t know what’s wrong with me.”

“I” is your conscious mind, and “me/myself” is your unconscious mind. Sadly, the two have a hard time communicating with one another. So, when there is a conflict between the two, it can lead to anxiety, depression, anger, intrusive thoughts, and relationship issues. It gets worse with trauma, which gets imprinted in the unconscious brain.

This is where I come in. I bridge the two minds so your unconscious knows what’s up with you. In my experience, the unconscious is always ready to follow your dreams as much as you do.

Keep it Real

“Fish don’t know they’re in water.”

Often, your problem has nothing to do with you and has all to do with what you’ve been told, believed to be true, socially conditioned through education, the media, and systemic oppression. You simply don’t know, like fish in water.

This is where I come in. I get you out of that fishbowl and show you what you’ve been swimming in. There’s usually an immediate “ooooh…” sense of relief.

Are we a good fit together?

We’re likely a good fit if…

  • You are open and contemplative and also appreciates concrete results.

  • You're highly capable and driven — and somehow still spinning in place.

  • You keep coming back to the same quiet thought: “this can't be it - there’s gotta be a different way to live.”

  • Appreciates humor and is comfortable with occasional f-bombs.

We’re may not a good fit if…

  • You are looking for a place to vent on a weekly basis.

  • You’re only interested in advice on how to fix someone else for your problem.

  • You gasp at the word “shit.”

Reviews

  • "Every session with JJ was impactful, progressing through a mixture of developing therapeutic skills and new insights. We could quickly assess a wide variety of approaches to therapy and identify what worked really well for me. Between each session I had tools to apply that reliably made a big differences. And we routinely addressed what I brought to each session. Gradually, I witnessed my orientation to my "issues" changing, whereby I felt ever more equipped to address whatever should arise. My life started to feel more honest and my heart more open. My time with JJ changed my life."

    Client, resolved complex trauma

  • “I have been to therapy multiple times and have never really clicked with anyone before JaeJeung. She was able to understand the deeper injuries beneath my depression and negativity and helped me to heal those wounds. I feel more capable to face the challenges of life now that I know how to handle my emotions and fears. I can finally feel happiness again that reaches the edges of my soul. I am beyond grateful."

    Client, resolved depression and negative self-perception

  • "From the outset of therapy with JJ, I found it extraordinarily easy to connect with her. She has an authenticity and sincerity I could sense right away, and it was so easy to be honest and vulnerable in our sessions. Eventually, I felt safe enough so that I was not holding anything back, which was, itself, a unique and incredibly powerful experience for me. For example, I was able to offer and witness (and let go of!) even my deepest feelings of shame, which I hadn't previously been able to show myself, let alone someone else."

    Client, resolved childhood tauma

  • "JJ is a transformative therapist and teacher. She practices therapy with such sincerity and authenticity, so that it's easy and therapeutic to trust her. She is so adept at listening, seeing, and understanding. One can feel her openness and lack of judgment, which is also therapeutic and creates an incredibly ripe environment for true witnessing and change. She is incredibly skillful at helping, easily shifting among a large variety of therapeutic approaches to find what fits. She is just an unbelievably gifted therapist in my opinion."

    Client, resolved complex trauma

  • “I feel like an adult for the first time”

    Client, resolved complex childhood trauma

  • “JJ is very professional and makes you feel important and worth her time. Her intelligence and compassion makes her kind, attentive and incredibly resourceful. She will gentrly challenge you to make positive changes in your life, and be with you every step of the healing process.”

    Client, resolved dissociation in relationships

  • “I got something out of every single session. JJ has a very refined eye. I often came in with a tangled cloud of abstractions and she never failed to find the string that connected it all. Because of this, I felt like I often moved rather quickly, in a positive sense. I also felt very well taken care of in every issue that I brought in, from the cultural aspect to the trauma-related fears to the individuating process."

    Client, resolved struggle with individuation and career alignment

  • “JJ has a lot of knowledge and experience with trauma work and art therapy, both of which I benefited from in my sessions. She is understanding but also frank about situations. I also appreciated her sense of humor that helped build rapport and made discussing more difficult experiences easier.”

    Client, resolved self-doubt and anxiety stemming from toxic relationship

I’ll help you move

from Anxious Doing to Aligned Choosing